Gegu, buang, nang, gaw, dzae, humbling, deep, light, grounded, exuberant, radical, sensible, unconditional, daring, generous, stylish, clever, and brilliant!!! There is no one person who can fulfill all of the different aspects of my life… I am grateful to have this incredible person in my life who can show me not just one, but many different ways to be crazy, make mistakes, enjoy life and be my true self. She taught me what a soulmate really is, and I wouldn’t be able to survive without having her in my life.
Being able to talk it over with a bestie who understands, accepts and gets the real me because we have mental synchronization allows the conversation to flow and creates a sense of connectivity, as well as assisting me in grasping my own comprehension. When inspiration strikes, I adore sharing my craziness with a bestie who understands what it’s like to be surrounded by ideas that make me feel good! And it is the unwavering support that inspires me and keeps me going!
She’s there to remind me that I’m doing my best, that I’m human, and that life is a wonder to be grateful for, even when things go wrong.
She spent the night in my place. We had a talk about how life will be 5 years from now, what could possibly be our future, and how we end up liking similar persons with similar names (Aldrin and Algen). We’ve been like this for years. We end up in similar situations that will test our faith, maturity, love, respect, and bravery. And as usual, those two men we like end up liking someone else or disappearing in thin air. The fact that we still took the risk and considered our feelings for them, even though we knew our hearts would be in jeopardy, was already a big deal for me and for both of us.
One thing I’ve learnt in life is that it’s all about taking risks. To have a sense of what it’s like to live, you sometimes have to jump without a safety net. By taking risks, we expose ourselves to getting injured in relationships or situations, losing everything we thought we had, and suffering personal injuries, but these risks may also lead us to finding the one true love of our lives or becoming the best version of ourselves that we can ever be. We discover things that are more valuable than what we have lost through these crises, and we learn things about ourselves that will form our character in the future. Playing things safe won’t alter anything, but taking risks will enable us to live our lives to the fullest.
My point is that taking risks has no bad repercussions. Because it is either you learn or grow. This applies to all aspects of life, not just in relationships, career, dreams or fashion decisions. Taking the initial step on a thousand-mile journey is the only way to get where you want to go. Sure, there will be some who want to bring you down, but it is ultimately up to you… Nobody else will be able to live your life but you!
People who persevere in the face of adversity, overcome barriers, and find creative solutions to issues inspire me. It’s not easy, but they learn to accept the situation as it is. They are, in my opinion, true life warriors. We will only become one if we stop worrying and start accepting the obstacles that life throws at us. Treat everything you’re going through right now as a learning opportunity, and believe that it will always help you become a better person.
Before I sign out on this piece, I’d like to offer my heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has contacted me to tell me how much my blog has inspired them; they are the reason I continue to write and do what I love. With the year 2022, I’ll be focusing on “The Life Continuum” in the hopes of inspiring more people. Anyway, don’t hesitate to leave a remark or send me a message on the topic today! I’d love to hear what you have to say. *sniff* (:
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As a kid, I remember feeling very uncomfortable with crushes or boyfriends whenever someone would casually bring it up. I even swore to myself that I wouldn’t date anyone, as crazy as its sounds but I’m sure some of you can relate to me. Needless to say, just a mere mention of the term “boy” creeps me out way before I even got the chance to interact with one outside my family. So, the first day of 6th grade came and I had a seat mate named Kurt. As we started talking, my heart would never be the same. It was my first awkward crush (and first heartbreak too), little did I know then that it was only the beginning of so many more.
Well, let’s take my outfit for today as an example. In the Philippines, low hanging Harem Pants (as seen in the photo) is not something you see everyday at the mall or in the park. The only place where I catch people wearing these kinds of attire is at the airport and usually they’re Caucasians backpacking in Asia. I find it odd why there are only a few people here in my country who consider wearing low hanging Harem Pants when it can be both comfortable and trendy. I mean, what more can you ask for? The best part with wearing these pants is that you can make heads turn for as long as you know the right clothing and accessories to match it with. Not to mention the proper ambiance.
So if you’re considering buying low hanging Harem Pants in the future, here’s what you need to remember: it’s always recommended that the pants should be emphasized so the top should be tucked inside the pants. Remember to keep the clothing above simple as possible to provide the background for the accent, which are the pants. If your pants are dark go for a colorful top to liven the outfit up like how I did with mine, and always keep the leg down. It’s not anymore out of place if you see someone wearing them out in public today. It’s better to set the trend than follow one. Of course you’ll catch a lot of glances but that’s the whole point, isn’t it?
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